Do I have to keep complimenting her? Should I shower her with more gifts? Did I text her before sleeping?
Men are always on the quest to find things that can make girls fall for them. But, what if I tell you that something as simple as wrapping an arm around her waist or rolling a buttoned-up shirt to the elbows is enough to make her weak in the knees.
#1. Playing With Children
Imagine a guy interacting with children or playing with them?
For me, it’s an ovary explosion.
Actually, it’s not only me. It seems like a 2014 study in the Journal of Human Behavior in the Social Environment found that women find guys who are adept with kids more attractive. IT brings out their child-like and cute side (a side that they often fail to show).
I guess it kind of sends a subconscious and evolutionary signal to a woman that he would be a great dad one day. And, somewhere, isn’t that what we often look for in a man?
Someone who can be as loving and caring as a father.
#2. Telling Stories From His Childhood
“Tell me about when you were little.”
Go ahead with this one question and you’ll see how many guys turn a deaf ear to it.
Since the beginning of time, people have been sharing and telling stories. If you look at the center of it, you will find the potential, the vulnerability, the fragility, the strength and the weakness. When people share their stories, they are unfolding a beautiful part of themselves.
When a guy is sharing his past with you, it means he is letting you into his world – a world that he’s only willing to share with you.
He wants you to know everything about him. He wants you to know about the person he was when he was little – the life he lived before, the mistakes he made, the risks he took and the adventures he had.
More than anything, this is the sort of connection that girls yearn for.
#3. Remembering Important Dates
To be honest with you, I have zero-tolerance policy on this issue. I mean, if I ever happen to forget a special event, like my spouse’s birthday, I’d feel like a horse arse.
Now, I know guys have the habit of forgetting important dates and blaming it all on the black hole in their mind, which seems to sit there for an eternity.
Let me add that I do understand that the human brain can overload itself sometimes.
However, it means a lot to girls when guys remember all the special events. It does not only tell that he loves you, but he is willing to go the extra mile for you.
#4. The “Soft Eyes” Gaze
Eye contact is a powerful stimulator of love.
Whoever said this definitely deserves an award.
Love can be complicated and simple at the same time. It can happen that you are not “in sync” with the person who used to make your heart squeeze. But, sometimes, just one thing can be enough to make you fall head over heels all over again – a soft eye gaze.
I know, that sounds cheesy. It is, maybe.
But, be honest with me, how do you feel when you catch him looking at you with that soft look?
What’s more heart-touching is when you look completely smudged and swollen in the morning, but he still looks at you the same way.
#5. Fixing Something
Girls, just remember that there’s nothing better and hotter than a guy fixing a kitchen drawer or repairing a broken refrigerator door.
When their handy side emerges, I promise you’d you wild, with crazy thoughts coming from all directions.
#5. Listening Intently
The guy who packs his bags and sets off on a journey without destination when you start talking about your problems at work or your family problems isn’t the right one for you.
You can call me old-fashioned, but the guy who listens attentively when you talk about your crazy aunt or your menstruation frustrations is more than just a knight in shining armor.
#6. When He Kisses Your Forehead
Sure, girls love kissing. We’d be happy to lay with our lovers and kiss them for hours.
But, there’s something more special about a forehead kiss. It’s strong enough to make a girl weak in the knees. I’d say it’s a way for a guy to say“ you mean the whole world to me.”
You don’t always have to tell a girl how sexy she is. Sometimes just a soft kiss or a small hug from her inamorato is enough to make her smile.